In the early stages of dealing with it, the old trauma and the current self seem to be homogenized in terms of aura. On the other hand, as one's own vibration rises and the aura's light becomes stronger, a gap appears between the aura of the old trauma and the aura of the current self.
When feelings like trauma arise, if one's vibration has not changed much from that time, it is easy to resonate with it and be influenced by it. On the other hand, if one has already grown spiritually to some extent and the quality of the aura has changed, it seems to be recognized as a different aura.
And, as I wrote the other day, it is okay to "request" or "instruct" that old aura to leave, but in that case, if one understands that the different aura was the cause of creating the trauma in the first place, then, from the perspective of one's current aura, which has already changed, it is not only that there is nothing one can do about it, but also that one realizes that the state of the aura at that time itself was the cause of creating the trauma.
On the other hand, there are also discussions about dealing with trauma by focusing on the "actions" and "emotions" at that time, but since one has probably thought about that many times when dealing with trauma, it is more important to understand that the trauma was triggered because one's aura was immature compared to the current self, and then, it becomes clear that the situation that caused the trauma was, in a sense, inevitable.
This may be different from the general approach. Generally, trauma is often ignored or accepted as "it is what it is." People may laugh it off or talk about it to someone to alleviate the feeling. That's what conversations in cafes and bars are often like.
This time, while it is a form of acceptance, the focus is different. It is not on the actions or the state at that time, but by considering the state of the aura at that time and the spiritual growth stage at that time, one can understand that the situation was, to some extent, inevitable.
Such judgments and understandings can only be made if one has not spiritually grown more than their past self. In general terms, this might be described as "accepting the mischievous actions and experiences of one's youth as childish behavior." In reality, this can happen even as one gets older, but the basic principle remains the same: one cannot change what was done in the past when one was not yet mature. Instead, one should reflect on past actions, resolve not to repeat them, and strive to grow every day.
Even without explicitly focusing on spirituality, this is quite a normal thing. However, if one is mindful of spiritual practices, simply sensing the change in the aura between one's past self and present self can make it easier to understand and deal with these issues.