I have become able to not hate people who only think of their own benefit.

2025-04-17 記
Topic: :スピリチュアル: 回想録

Previously, when I saw such people, I think I hated them and considered them to be "bad" or "inferior." Now, I have objectively accepted that such people exist. In this world, there are a certain number of people who have almost no sense of sharing, compromise, or relying on others, and who believe that taking from others is natural. Even if such people pretend to be good people with polite words, their true nature is different, and what is being said here is the truth. In everyday life, there are many people who find joy in taking from others.

Such people, even when superficially expressing gratitude for something that someone else has kindly done for them, do not actually feel grateful. Instead, they often belittle or berate people who act for the benefit of others. Because others are seen as objects to be exploited, if someone does something for them, they consider it their own victory.

There are many such people in the world. Apparently, the reason I had to be closely associated with such people from a young age is because I needed to understand them.

This applies regardless of gender. For men, it is through force, while for women, it is through sexual appeal, but there is not much difference. Men boast of their victories by what they obtain from others, while women boast of their youth and beauty by what they obtain from men. Although the methods are different, there is not much difference in the fact that they consider what they obtain from others as their own victory.

The key to understanding this was realizing that what is generally called "spiritual" in the world is ultimately just a tool for achieving victory. In most cases, people use the tool of "spiritual" to have others do things for them voluntarily. This is often called "self-realization" or the "law of attraction."

For a long time, I felt very uncomfortable with this earthly form of spirituality.

And I realized the truth that most of the people who are called "spiritual" in the world are using spirituality to control others and use them for their own benefit.

In the words of those people themselves, "It becomes fun when you can change reality through spirituality." Whether it is in the physical world or in spirituality, the essence is to control others and manipulate reality to benefit oneself. This is the level of many of today's spirituality.

That is to say, in the real world, people who only think of their own interests are simply using the invisible spiritual world.

In fact, I originally thought that the spiritual world was different from the world of desires and the realization of wishes in the real world. This is because my fundamental understanding of spirituality is based on out-of-body experiences, and in my childhood out-of-body experiences, I met many beings such as my guide, guardian spirit, the group soul that is my origin, or angels, and gained insights from them.

Therefore, when I thought that I could talk about the same things in the so-called spiritual industry, most of them talked about pursuing real-world benefits and changing reality. To achieve this, they perform rituals or study to change reality. Ultimately, if they are seeking to change the real world or achieve self-realization, I thought it would be much healthier to pursue those goals in the physical world.

The spiritual world is created by thoughts, so even if the thoughts are wrong, the logic can still stand. Therefore, it is difficult to correct thoughts.

On the other hand, in the real world, especially in work, there are physical constraints, which correct thoughts. And by encountering those constraints, it is possible to correct mistakes in thinking.

On the other hand, in the spiritual world, correcting thoughts is not very effective. Whether it is correct or incorrect, the difference is often unclear. In cases where it is correct, it is possible to understand each other, but it is sometimes difficult for ignorant people to understand the spiritual opinions of others.

In both the physical world and the spiritual world, there are people who try to gain benefits from others, and both were once objects of my hatred. I considered them to be evil.

However, recently, my heart has become even more open, and my third eye (ajna) is more active than before, so I have come to think that even such low-level thoughts are understandable. People are like that. That is why people are suffering. Hating those suffering people will not achieve anything. They are suffering because of their ignorance.

In this way, by taking a step back, I have been able to avoid feeling hatred.

I believe that I had to live among selfish people from a young age in order to learn this.

And now I think that this understanding is the key to saving the Earth. To not hate selfish people, but simply to understand them. To understand that people who act for their own benefit are doing so at that level, whether it is in a physical or spiritual sense.

Such people invariably make grand pronouncements about doing things for the sake of others, for the sake of the world, or for world peace. However, when you look closely at their words, you often see that the feeling of "enjoying controlling others" is revealed. Sometimes they even say such things openly.

In reality, people are free beings, so enjoying controlling others is a violation of that freedom. However, such people use various excuses to justify controlling others. For example, they might say something that seems reasonable, such as "The hierarchy of evil controls through fear, but the hierarchy of good controls for the sake of order." However, in reality, they try to control others by using various threats, such as "If you are not in the good, you will fall into evil." A certain number of people are deceived by such excuses and follow cults out of fear. While they talk about doing things for the sake of the world, what they are actually doing is enjoying controlling others, which is a small thing. This is the reality of cult organizations and high-priced spiritual seminars.

Even so, I have been able to accept and observe this as the reality of the Earth's spirituality.

First, it is a forgiveness for those who try to exploit the benefits of others in the physical world, and also a forgiveness for those who try to control the thoughts and actions of others in the spiritual world.

Both of these are not the essence, and are not true spirituality, but I think I have come to a point where I can forgive them, even if they are such fakes.

Previously, it was difficult, and there was a tendency to dislike people who approached for their own benefit. Because "spirituality" is often just about using the law of attraction to bring about positive changes in reality, I was suspicious of people who came to counseling for that purpose.

Currently, the misunderstanding of spirituality is due to a lack of knowledge, and I have come to think that it is unavoidable.

Rather than that, I think it would be good if they could at least turn their attention towards the truth, even just a little.