In some cases, especially for women, if they enjoyed their previous life as a wife, they may be reborn into the family. If they want to be a wife again, they may try to attract attention before being reborn. In the case of children, they tend to be more free-spirited and come into being on their own.

Those who seize opportunities and take action will get the position. It doesn't seem to be managed very strictly. It's quite free.

When a previous life partner is reborn as a child or grandchild, they are likely to be very cute. Of course, they are probably so cute that it's hard to handle.

On the other hand, if someone is born without a clear connection, they may not be as cute, but rather "pretty cute."

It is often said that grandchildren are as precious as one's own eyes, but in reality, it varies from person to person.

Even if they are cute to a certain extent, there are cases where they are not that cute. This is the "attached" pattern. Children or grandchildren who are born as a pattern of following someone around, who want to go somewhere, will continue that pattern unless they break free from it. It's a pattern of becoming a relative for the purpose of learning.

In reality, there are often mixed patterns, where there is a certain level of cuteness, but also a feeling of annoyance mixed in. For example, there may be a grandfather who feels that his grandchild is "cute, but also a nuisance" and feels like they are being exploited for money.

It seems to make a big difference whether the grandchild is someone you want to spend money on or someone you feel is exploiting you. I think that about 80% of the time, the grandchild is someone you want to spend money on, while only 20% is someone you feel is exploiting you. However, even if you feel like they are exploiting you, there may be a cute side to them, so it's not that simple. However, the basic principle is that they become family for the purpose of connecting with a previous life or learning through karma.

This is the basic relationship, and to that, the basic "ability to love" as a human being is added. If you are someone who naturally loves others, you can love them even if the basic relationship is not good. On the other hand, if you are someone who cannot easily trust or love others, you may feel resistance to loving them, even if the basic relationship is good.

In my case, my mother's side is a family that is naturally good at loving others, while my father's side is a somewhat difficult family. When I go to my mother's side, I am loved, but when I go to my father's side, I often feel a sense of unease, even though I am being loved. Well, I think this is quite good compared to the world, but even so, I sometimes feel the "sense of annoyance" that my father's grandparents sometimes show, and I have always wondered what it means when a grandchild is not cute.

I have not had many financial difficulties in my previous lives, so I don't understand the feelings of poor people. This time, I am trying to live a life with little money, just to experience the feelings of poor people, and I am finally starting to understand the feelings of poor people. Until now, I thought that poor people were "twisted" for some reason, but now that I understand them a little, I feel that my "desire to understand" has almost been resolved. In other words, if you don't have money, your ability to love others is weak, and your grandchild is not cute, then the grandchild may appear to be "a target to be robbed of property." I had never realized this simple fact before, but I finally feel like I understand the twisted feelings of poor people. Because they are poor, they are twisted, and because they are twisted, others avoid them, and because others avoid them, there are fewer people who will help them, and their business does not go well, so they become even poorer. This is a "poor people's story." Some people will say, "You don't know anything," or "You can't possibly understand all poor people," but I am only interested in the parts that I am curious about, and I have already understood enough. I used to not understand the nature of twisted poor people, but now that I have tasted it and understood it a little, I know that it is not a world I need to be involved in, so I am not interested in it anymore.

I have finally understood a little bit about the feelings of poor people, so I am satisfied and don't need to know any more. I just want to live a happy life with my cute and loving wives from previous lives.

In this era, the basic principle of helping someone is to be a wife. By constantly saying "yes" to whatever your wife wants, you can make her want to be with you in the next life.

In the world, some people seem to think of their wives as tools, slaves, or servants. However, in that case, after the wife's death, she will simply be released and go somewhere else.

It's not just wives. People who have a close connection with each other, who have been good friends in past lives, tend to live a similar life. By cherishing people, we can connect to the next life. In that context, it is natural that grandchildren are especially beloved when souls with a connection from past lives are reincarnated.

On the other hand, people who live by calculating gains and losses tend to have their surroundings, including their wives, children, and grandchildren, also become about gains and losses, which leads to a life without love.

Which is better depends on the foundation of your current life and how it continues to the next life.

This is not saying that one is better than the other. It's simply about living as you like. Your life will become what you desire.

It is your freedom to choose a twisted life, and it is also your freedom to choose the path of love. I do not deny or recommend extreme bitterness even among the poor. You can choose either way, and perhaps there is something beyond that. I think it's fine if you do what interests you. This world is vast enough to allow for that. However, the world of bitterness among the poor is not the world I live in, so I would appreciate it if you didn't involve me in it.

As you reincarnate many times, there are often times when you think, "What is this?" Each time, I have been interested in observing various things, and while there are interesting stories, there are also stories of the poor being bitter, which ultimately end up being "nothing." However, the vast majority of this diverse world is essentially wonderful.

In Japan, the trend towards nuclear families is progressing. However, I think it would be wonderful if people cherished their families in this life and hoped to be born as the same wife, children, and relatives in the next life, leading to a rich family life where everyone is smiling and having fun.

Well, whatever I say, it's unlikely to change others, and people can do as they please.